Love. The real soul food.

31 Aug

School is back in session.  Football has started.  That means one thing…summer is rolling into fall.  When seasons change, it’s a new beginning of sorts.  Mother Nature freshens up her Earth.  Time to refresh the soul as well. I reflect on the past, and think about how to improve my future. My journey to love, loyalty, forgiveness, and appreciation continues, as does the journey to discover myself. A goal for my journey is to make it a joyful one. As I sit back and marvel at the obstacles I have overcome and the resulting  strength that has grown within, gratitude washes over me.  So I must say thank you.  Again and again.  There is no denying the gifts.

Thank you to those who told me I couldn’t. From you I am learning that I can.

Thank you to those who gossiped. From you I am learning how to hold my friends dear, and how important it is to keep my mouth shut.

Thank you to those with no faith. From you I am learning that God is central in my life, and that my faith runs deep.

Thank you to those who told me that I am weak. From you I am learning inner strength and confidence. You allow me to dig down to discover that I am stronger than I ever imagined.

Thank you to those that told me I was ugly. From you I am finding my inner beauty.

Thank you to those that put up barriers in my life. From you, I am learning to tear down walls and fight for what I want.

Thank you to those who told me that I am not a good mother. From you I am learning that my commitment to motherhood is beautifully imperfect, and perfectly loving.

Thank you to those that put me second (or more accurately third, fourth or fifth) . From you I am learning that God puts me first.

Thank you to those who are loud and demand attention. From you I am learning the value of being quiet.

Thank you to those who create drama in my life. From you I am learning to truly appreciate peace.

Thank you to those who have that overpowering sense of entitlement. From you I am learning to humble, see the good, and appreciate the little things.

Thank you to those who told me to quit. From you I am learning perseverance.

Thank you to those who brag. From you I learning to be modest.

Thank you to those that lied to me. From you I am learning the importance of the truth.

Thank you to those who are false and phony. From you I am learning the importance of being genuine.

Thank you to the people who showed me kindness not because I am needy but because you are good. Thank you to those who extended generosity, for you have enabled me to more openly give to others. Thank you for those with whom I share friendship, prayerful faith, and comforting touch not only in times of need, but in all times.

Thank you for those of you that protect me not because I am weak but because you are loyal. Thank you to those that share their strength with me when I have none. For you give me the power to be a pillar of strength to someone else. Because of you I can extend the generous love you have shown me to others. After all, it is in giving that we receive.

I am no different from anyone else. I have been hurt. I have felt the pain of deceit, the heart break of cruel disloyalty, and the sting of failure. From that I rise up.  I give thanks to those by my side, and for those that have turned against me. From everyone whose life has touched mine, I continue to learn to love. It is easy to be thankful for the great people in your life and to love them. The challenge lies in loving and learning from those that hurt us.

This blog addresses mostly food. Today it is about fruits. The fruits of the spirit. Food for the soul.  After all, we should strive for progress, not perfection.

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